Friday 19 June 2015

Love defined

Its not that you see someone you liked them and you are in love, it doesn't work that way.
You need to be head over heals to fall in love, you actually don't do it, it just happens, that's the beauty of it. If you think you can love someone, you are wrong, If you feel you have to have them everyday, every second in your life else you will feel incomplete the whole time, that my friend is called love.

For girls I don't know how it works, but for guys, they are flirt, they all are trust me, but a little healthy flirting doesn't mean he is not loyal to his girlfriend, it just a natural way to lighten the mood and to make that girl feel special and wanted once in a while. If a girl takes healthy flirting in a good way that means she is mature enough to understand whats going on. Jealousy is something that has no cure, you trust your partner that's it, if he/she is lying, betraying you then it will naturally come around and then you will have a choice to forgive or to move on. That's a crucial time, I personally will advise you to move on because once a cheater is always a cheater.

If you are single and disappointed that you will ever find love or not, just hang in there, your time will come and when it will come it will be more beautiful than you ever imagined.When you will fall in love, every shitty thing will seem beautiful to you, people who bothered you wont even matter, you will wait to see the one you love and when you will see the person, you will get butterflies in your stomach and that's the wonderful feeling you will ever feel.
It's all actually kind of dream, you know how dreams are so realistic you can't tell if it was a 
dream.

Many people think true love is no more, people just get into relationships to use each other, but ask me I have loved someone truly, we are not together, but I wish her a happy and better life, I know we will never be together, she is a wonderful girl who understand feelings and knows how to respect other's feelings. I wish her all the good things in life. God bless you.

For me love is not to get, it should be unconditional, we look for profit in every goddam thing on earth, love should be unconditional, otherwise its not love. It will be a business transaction.
Believe me true love is still out there, you just need to wait or identify the one and get going.
Hope, Faith, Peace, Love, Believe.








Tuesday 16 June 2015

The Anti-Social Network

Hi everyone,

I want you all to take good 5 minutes of your lives and give this idea a piece of your mind.
The cellphone we use, majorly for Social Network, I couldn't be more straight here, "Just stop over doing it"

You are thinking you are closer to the person you love but actually you are going away. These networks are here for communication, not to live your life on a wall. I go to facebook once or twice a day (Actually I am a YouTube addict) just to see what my friends are up to and after scrolling for 30 seconds I am back in the real world, with people who are with me. In future when you won't have the bones to walk, the courage to jump, the passion to ride, you will regret each and every unproductive second spent here on these cobwebs of internet.

You need to make most of everything we have, because life may seem long, but its actually really small when you begin to realize the joy of small things. You may not realize this, just have a look the facts below.
Users send out 58 million tweets per day, with 9,100 happening every second. However, there are 222 million Twitters who just watch other people’s tweets. There are 684,478 pieces of content shared on Facebook; 3,600 new photos on Instagram; 2,083 check-ins on Foursquare during every minute of everyday. People are spending 1 out of every 7 minutes on Facebook when online. Facebook users typically are spending 10.5 Billion minutes (almost 20,000 years) on the social network. And, that’s excluding mobile devices. See 20,000 Years, we can't even begin to imagine how valuable and priceless piece of time is wasted and it goes on.

If you are applying for a new job, you know your chances of getting that job may be so much reduced because of your social networking website profile page? Often employs search for applicant’s social networking website’s profile page to know more about you.  Maybe you have put some humorous pics in your profile or maybe you have entered wrong information (maybe just for fun) in your profile.  Your employer will be shocked to see all that and you will not be given the job offer.

Just think all of the technology is here to help you, not to become so dependent on it that when you do not have it, you can't live anymore. Clicking pictures of food before eating it, taking risky selfies just to get more likes, getting jealous because of less number of followers or likes, writing about your personal life in public, please stop all this, this makes you look pathetic and desperate.

Remember who you are, act accordingly.

Vivek Choudhary