Plan your New Year, don't just resolve.

Its 27th December 2015, few more days and we will be in 2016.
I see people make many resolutions and end up breaking them all.
I strongly believe that if you can't keep up a resolution on a normal day, there's no guarantee that you will follow it if its a new year resolution.

Instead saying meaningless stuff, go big, make bigger plans, and make a realistic timeline to achieve all those goals. Its a much better exercise to do rather than changing status to your resolution which you will eventually break. The way I see, birthdays and new years are reminders that you are growing old each time you celebrate such occasion. You should be making the most of it every time you celebrate.
With that said I wish you all a very happy and prosperous new year.
God bless you all.
I hope you grow into the right direction and achieve more success.

Vivek Choudhary

Love defined... Part 3 : Letting Go

This is the third series of my post Love Defined.
I am not an expert in love but I have had some good and bad experience in love. That makes me good enough to write about it. At least I know how it feels. This post is about in case you can't hold the relationship any longer and someone has to go.

There will be a time when things will go out of control, there could be any reason for this, a third person, family, distance etc. There will be a time in which there can be damage control but there will also be a time where you can do nothing about it. And its really hard to let go. One has to reevaluate his/her complete life, hold the shit together and start from scratch. It changes people. Now we all know that we should not think about past, but when a relationship ends it takes a part of you with it and in that case its very hard to get over it. I suggest in that time you should stop listening to sad songs and get busy in living. Get back with your friends and have fun. It won't help that much but it sure will reduce your alone time. Try to understand that this was meant to be, you were born (also) to be a part of this incomplete love story but that also suggests that this is not the end, there is a lot more. Things you can't see, the future, the bright shining future of yours. Its up to you whether you want to restart or just go to sleep mode.

There will be someone who will hug you so tight that all your broken pieces will fit together and you will forget about all the past. You will feel it, you will start dreaming again. Dreaming is very important, it keeps you alive, never stop dreaming.


Vivek Choudhary