Showing posts with label mindset. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mindset. Show all posts

Friday, 25 July 2025

Atomic Habits in Action: My Simple System for Success

 A single column. Just numbers ticking upward.

53 days. 67 days. 57 days.

This is my Notion “Days Since” dashboard — the quiet proof that small, consistent actions compound into something extraordinary.


Why Tracking Small Wins Matters

Most of us overestimate what we can do in a week and underestimate what we can do in a year.
When you track your habits, every day becomes a brick in a wall you’re building. That tiny number climbing from 1 to 2 to 10 creates a sense of momentum that’s hard to break — because you start seeing yourself as someone who doesn’t skip.



My Journey with Atomic Habits

Earlier this year, I set out to make lasting changes in my life. Like many, I had tried before and failed. This time, I applied James Clear’s Atomic Habits framework:

  • Make it obvious: I designed my environment to support my goals.

  • Make it attractive: I reframed habits as investments in my future self.

  • Make it easy: I started with tiny, realistic steps.

  • Make it satisfying: I celebrated small milestones and watched the streak grow.

That’s how I quit smoking and alcohol, two habits I had carried for years. I didn’t “quit cold turkey” in the traditional sense — I built systems that made my new identity inevitable.


Three Simple Strategies to Build a Habit That Sticks

  1. Start embarrassingly small. Commit to just one minute of the habit. Momentum matters more than intensity.

  2. Track it visually. Watching your streak grow creates an emotional connection that makes missing a day feel costly.

  3. Pair it with identity. Instead of saying, “I’m trying to quit,” say, “I’m not someone who smokes/drinks/skips workouts.”


Choose One Habit Today

Here’s the truth: You don’t need to overhaul your life. You just need to start one streak. Pick one action that your future self will thank you for, and let the counter climb.

Wednesday, 13 September 2017

Boring Life

Generation gap is a serious issue and it leads to many conclusions taking place in brains of people on either side. There will be a time when this gap will become permanent with no damage control.
Often we perceive older/elders as boring because they do things differently, or not the way you want. But we're not always right. There is a lot which we don't know and will only learn with time. 
A thought which I believe everyone thinks nowadays and I don't agree to it.
So I am going to try to explain.

There is a very dangerous trap which 95% of people fall.

It all starts in teen ages – at this age you start to realize yourself as a unique human being, with a unique identity, talents, skills etc...

And somehow, everyone thinks that his or her life is going to be as unique as they feel they are.
However, here goes the essence of the trap: Young people associate uniqueness and happiness of their whole life with uniqueness of themselves, and think it’s just impossible to be otherwise. 

Youngsters look at adults and think that they are boring, they just don’t get it, they don’t understand how cool life is. Teenagers can never ever even consider the possibility of ending up living the same boring lives as their parents. Why? Because they think “I am just so unique and different…”.
So instead of working hard and act on their “uniqueness” to develop it and make it evolve, they just live and think it is all going to happen on its own….
But it won’t.

And this is exactly how these bright and uniquely talented young people end up living a boring mediocre life – complaining about everything around while trying to justify the way they spent their lives.
So this is what I will try to teach my kids (Someday down the line) – life DOES NOT just happen, but boring life does.




Vivek Choudhary
With Inputs from Yura Yazlovytskyy