Showing posts with label social network. Show all posts
Showing posts with label social network. Show all posts

Monday, 15 April 2024

Finding Freedom Beyond Social Media

 In a world dominated by likes, shares, and endless scrolling, I recently made a radical decision. I deactivated my Instagram and Facebook accounts on 1st Jan'24. For years, these platforms had been an integral part of my daily routine, consuming precious time and attention. However, as the digital noise grew louder, I found myself yearning for silence, for moments of genuine connection and reflection.

The decision to step away from social media was not easy. Like many, I initially feared missing out, worrying about losing touch with friends and opportunities. Yet, what I discovered upon disconnecting was a newfound sense of freedom, a liberation from the constant barrage of notifications and comparisons.

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With my social media accounts offline, I suddenly had more time at my disposal than ever before. Instead of mindlessly scrolling through feeds, I found myself diving into passions that had long been neglected. Whether it was delving into a new hobby, immersing myself in literature, or honing professional skills, each day brought a renewed sense of purpose and fulfillment.

One of the most significant benefits of my social media break was the quality time I could now dedicate to my family. Without the distraction of notifications pulling me away, I found myself fully present during meals, conversations, and shared activities. In this digital age, where screens often replace face-to-face interactions, reconnecting with loved ones on a deeper level has become an invaluable gift.

Moreover, stepping back from social media allowed me to cultivate a sense of inner peace and contentment. No longer bombarded by curated images and status updates, I could embrace authenticity and introspection. I found joy in the simple moments—a walk in nature, a quiet cup of coffee, or a meaningful conversation with a friend.

As I reflect on my journey away from social media, I am reminded of the importance of reclaiming control over our digital lives. While these platforms undoubtedly offer connectivity and opportunities, they can also foster feelings of inadequacy and distraction. By taking a deliberate break, I can rediscover the beauty of living in the moment and prioritizing what truly matters.

In conclusion, my break from social media has been a transformative experience, empowering me to focus on personal growth, strengthen relationships, and cultivate a sense of inner peace. In a world filled with digital noise, sometimes the greatest liberation comes from unplugging and embracing the freedom to live authentically.

Stay Peaceful :)

Sunday, 1 October 2017

The Whatsapp DP drama

He sent a good morning message to his friend/girlfriend.

*a few hours later*

He checks his WhatsApp and puts a sad WhatsApp profile pic and status because he didn’t get any reply yet.

He asks his familiar friend to message her just to confirm if she is ignoring him or not.

*After a few more hours*

He feels bad and removes his WhatsApp profile pic.

Finally, he got a reply from her. He feels happy and he puts his smiling profile pic again.


I’ve been seeing this a lot lately. I think it’s complete stupidity to remove dp and status.

That’s the story of almost every Indian youth out there. Whenever they feel sad they just remove their WhatsApp profile pic as they think it’s an easy way to get sympathy and Attention.




They think that if they remove their Dp and Status, people will start asking them, Why? When? Who? How? (Which actually happens in most cases).

I want to give one piece of advice to all the youngsters out there.

No one actually cares

If you have a WhatsApp DP or not

No one actually cares if you are happy or not

Care for yourself

The moment you start sympathizing with yourself, you become meek at that moment.

Never ever disclose your weakness and the times when you were down. I am attaching a beautiful answer at the end. I hope it will help all the broken heart people out there.


P.S I haven’t changed my DP or status since 2014, because it doesn’t matter to me, I see WhatsApp as an application I use, not a reflection of my life ;)

Vivek Choudhary